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Dr. M is the author of five advice books, including Getting to Know the Real You: 50 Fun Quizzes Just for Girls, and Girls: What's So Bad About Being Good? How to Have Fun, Survive the Preteen Years, and Remain True to Yourself, both written with her teenage daughter. Dr. M shares this advice column with Molly, a middle school student who loves to play soccer, dance, write and spend time with her friends.
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Dear Dr. M and Molly,
I was having trouble in school, and I just found out I have ADD. I am scared people will treat me differently. So far, my teachers are already treating me differently. HELP! I am scared because I refuse to take ANY medicine the doctor gives me.
—Madison, 11, Pennsylvania
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Dear Madison,
While some kids, like you, are concerned about the reactions of other people, other kids are actually relieved when they receive the diagnosis of Attention Deficit Disorder. Now you know why you were having trouble in school. ADD is very common, and you probably know kids who have it. The diagnosis is only the first step. You, your parents, your doctor, and your teachers have to figure out together what will work best for you. It could be medication. It could be learning new strategies for studying and paying attention. It is probably a combination of things. You don't have to handle ADD on your own—there are lots of people who know how to help you, if you let them.

 

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Dear Madison,
It is important that you take the medicine the doctor gives you. If you don't, you will probably continue to have trouble in school. If your teachers treat you differently, it is because they are trying to help you. If this is really bothering you, you can tell them how you feel. If you say it politely, I'm sure they will understand. As for your friends, if you are afraid they might treat you differently, you don't need to tell them at all. This is something personal, so there is no need for you to tell people you don't want to.
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