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Dr. M is the author of five advice books, including Getting to Know the Real You: 50 Fun Quizzes Just for Girls, and Girls: What's So Bad About Being Good? How to Have Fun, Survive the Preteen Years, and Remain True to Yourself, both written with her teenage daughter. Dr. M shares this advice column with Molly, a middle school student who loves to play soccer, dance, write and spend time with her friends.
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Dear Dr. M and Liz,
There's this girl in my class and she keeps on pulling my hair, cheating off my tests, and just telling people lies about me. When I tell the teacher, she won't believe me.
—Jennifer, 8, Indiana
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Dr. M's Answer

Dear Jennifer,
You don't explain how you know that your teacher doesn't believe you, but your teacher might feel that she has to see this girl behaving badly before taking action. However, kids who bully (that's what you're describing) usually do their mean stuff when they won't get caught. Instead of waiting and putting up with the hair pulling, cheating, and lies, talk to another adult—perhaps a parent or the school nurse or the principal—about what you're experiencing at school. Let that person know that you've already talked to the teacher and that you need the bullying to stop.

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Liz's Answer
Dear Jennifer,
You were right to try to talk to someone about what the girl in your class is doing, but if your teacher won't believe you, try talking to someone else about it, maybe one of your friends or a friend of the girl. They've probably seen what she's been doing to you firsthand and can let the girl know what they've seen. They can tell her to stop bothering you. If you're brave enough, you can even talk to the girl yourself. If these friendlier methods don't work, ask your parent to talk to your teacher or the girl's parent. Sometimes, adults will listen to another adult when they won't listen to a kid.
 
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