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About Dr. M and Molly
Dr. M is the author of five advice books, including Getting to Know the Real You: 50 Fun Quizzes Just for Girls, and Girls: What's So Bad About Being Good? How to Have Fun, Survive the Preteen Years, and Remain True to Yourself, both written with her teenage daughter. Dr. M shares this advice column with Molly, a middle school student who loves to play soccer, dance, write and spend time with her friends.
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Dear Dr. M and Liz,
I am not much of a tomboy (I wear makeup and shop) but I would like to become athletic for once in my life. Do I have to become a tomboy if I want to play softball, tennis, and/or golf? I know you can't answer every question you receive, but I desperately need to know! Do I have to be a tomboy?
—Carly, 10, Pennsylvania
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Dear Carly,
Absolutely not! Check out the top tennis female players, for instance, and you'll see lots of style. What's important is getting fit, finding a sport that works for you, and spending time practicing your skills. You'll see yourself as an athlete before you know it.

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Dear Carly,
Just because some girls who are athletic are tomboys, doesn't mean you have to be, too. You don't need to change who you are to play sports, just don't let your girly habits interfere with becoming athletic.
 
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